Do not punish with anger

This article is a continuation of punish the stealer. Since parents need to deal with all feelings they may have when a child steal. Now I will ask those parents who had to deal with a child with stealing problems. How did you feel the first time you find out your child stole something? Probably you ignore the situation, or just punished your child. Where you angry when you confront your child? yes, no. Beleive me it really make the difference. How? when you angry, mad, upset etc. and you spank your child; you discharge your angry on your child and what is worse your child is not going to learn a lesson. Your child simply will see you as a parent who punished whith out reason. He or she will see you as an angry person with out self control. Your child will learn that is ok to hit, or punish when you upset or angry. Is that what you want ? I do not think so. Many parents who had face this situation, they confess that they felt frustration. They also experimented fear and isolation. Most of these parents are single. Parents who experiment isolation is because they have no body with whom they can feel free to talk about their personal problems. What do you think about anger?. Anger is an intense emotion. It is evidence that we feel strongly about something. Every time we experiment anger it will teach us a lesson. These lessons could be what we value, what we need, what we lack, what we believe and what our insecurities are. My advice for you tonight is not to punish or spank your child when you anger.